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Greetings from the Carlson Five!
It's really been a decade. [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Wednesday, July 30, 2008 This was my high school. And, what a great school, too. I was a 3rd generation student, and I might just have to move back into the Boise district so that my kids will be the 4 th. My high school reunion: felt a lot like high school, but with booze to take the edge off. I was half expecting to end the night feeling like a total unaccomplished loser. I was dreading even going. However. . . I realized that I am a loser. Always was. And I'm okay with that. P.S. I musta missed the memo about the group discount for boob jobs. Seriously girls. Like we aren't going to remember?! I'm a homeschooler. [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Friday, July 25, 2008I've done it. I bit the bullet and committed Annabel and myself to trying the virtual academy. After doing countless sample lessons and harassing the poor ladies in Arco with a million bazillion questions, I finally just signed her up. All I can say is that it's a good thing kindergarten is only 2.5 hours a day... Ava's naptime! Phew! It's true. It's gone. [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Thursday, July 24, 2008It started out small. Isn't that always how it goes? Then someone gets daring, someone else gets sentimental, and before you know it, rash decisions are made. That's pretty much what happened at our house today. I was getting ready to give Annabel a little trim when she asked me to cut 10" off her hair. So, I did. Well, it probably turned out to be more like 12 inches by the time I was done massacring it. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't sad about it. And even she is feeling some remorse. Good thing it's just hair and it will grow back! I asked her if she wanted to donate her hair to sick kids that don't have hair. "No way! I want to keep it!" At least she's honest, right? Andrew's response to her new look: "Annabel you look so pretty, I'm going to puke on you."  These babies are 11 inches!
One of Summer's Staples [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Monday, July 21, 2008 Sometimes there's just nothing better than a good ice cream cone. Especially when you're tired and hungry and grumpy. Unless, of course, you're all of the aforementioned AND can't figure out what to do with the darn thing.  Don't Drink the Water! [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Monday, July 07, 2008 Okay, innocent fun on a hot day, right? WRONG! When the CDH is at the park doing a survey and the first question is "How often do you remind your children NOT to drink the water?" it should raise a red flag! Of course I know about the many cases of crypto from last summer. But water is inevitably going to splash into my child's eye or mouth. Can't you people just super-shock the water or something?! Dance On [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Monday, July 07, 2008 My Cherub [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Friday, June 20, 2008 Ava has this one cute little curl that is taunting me. It's daring me to cut it off her head and paste it into her baby book. She won't know any different. But me, I'll have this little lock of hair to cherish forever! And, yes, those shoulders and neck are SO kissably soft. Pretty in pink and pool potty.. oops Party [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Wednesday, June 18, 2008  Well, for those of you that think Annabel and Avalee look alike. Okay, so maybe they do! A tiny bit. It's always a little creepy when hand-me-downs spark a moment of reminiscing. Boring blog post, I know. On to more important things: our new pool! Yes, we do have a pool in our subdivision. Yes, we do pay exorbitantly for access. No, children, I will not take you EVERY day it gets over 70. Inflatable backyard swimming pools definitely have their perks. For one thing, I rarely ever say no. And, even Eric will occassionally participate (he hates the neighborhood pool and all the obnoxious, splashing, noisy children whom are no doubt peeing in the water!). Annabel is FIVE! [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Saturday, June 07, 2008Happy Birthday Annabel! Thursday was all about Annie. We started the morning with a healthful donut with sprinkles then made our way to the zoo for some carousel rides and a visit to the tigers, penguins and the baby monkey. Then it was on to the park for some lunch, swings and climbing fun. After that it was off to dinner at Texas Roadhouse a.k.a. "the peanut place" with a surprise stop for a horse riding lesson. After dinner we crammed in some time for cake, ice cream and presents just before bedtime. Needless to say, the highlight of Annie's day was meeting Surprise, her new BFF.  Sooooo excited to open presents!
Surprise giving Annabel the once over.
Annabel taking charge. Leading HER horse to the arena. 
Excellent form. She's a natural! At the end of the day, Eric reminds me that Annabel's time at home is a quarter of the way over. Thanks for that, honey! "They grow up so fast" is sooooo cliche, but so true. Here's hoping that the next three quarters is filled with as much joy and excitement and great memories as the first! 3 Pokes [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Tuesday, June 03, 2008For the first time, probably ever, I questioned my baby's doctor. Of course, not out loud. But in my head I was thinking "Does she REALLY know?" It was immunization day today for Ava. Her last Prevnar, her first MMR and her first Chicken Pox vaccine. With all the media hype and hysteria in recent years revolving around the increased prevalence of Austism, and the potential link between it and early childhood vaccines, how could a mother NOT at least hesitate before signing the consent form?! I've read and researched both sides. Of course, the ever trustworthy CDC and FDA touting the ingenuity of vaccines and their life-saving, epidemic disease halting capabilities. And the polar opposite conspiracy theorists waving proof of doctored experiments, padded statistics and most importantly, shattered lives of those adversely affected. Who can you trust with your life or the lives of those you love? Ugh! The Sounds of Home [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Miss Avalee has been giving the Carlson household some serious grief lately. At the very least, a mild headache. Maybe even ruptured eardrums. What's that? Please hold, I think my one-year old is being eaten alive. Daringness lacking [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Tuesday, May 20, 2008That should be the motto of my children. Although, really, I'm not complaining as it has probably saved us a few trips to the ER. In gymnastics Annabel refused to invert her body in any which way, making nearly every single one of the moves impossible. On the playground they both object to climbing higher than a few feet off the ground, and Andrew is petrified of swinging too high. Last summer, I couldn't even get these kids to run through the sprinklers if there was a chance they might get their faces wet. But here we are, another year later. Eric took both kids up boating and somehow convinced them to ride in the big tube with him. Even after a nasty spill into the frigid lake, Andrew was brave enough to ride again. There is hope for them still! But speaking of daringness and ER visits, it has been 2 years now since Annabel knocked out her front teeth. She's been a real trooper through all of her dental visits and has been sweet to endure me riding her case about her lisp!! In another couple of years, she'll have her own pearly whites to be flashing and her broken falsies will be just another addition to her toddler keepsakes.  Birthday Girl! [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Sunday, May 18, 2008 Happy Birthday, Baby Avalee!
Wow, it's been an entire year already? You light up our lives and are always good for a smile! Baby, I'm so glad you're with us! Sun Poisoning, anyone? [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Saturday, May 17, 2008 Florida, Sunshine State, who knew? [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Thursday, May 15, 2008We're a coupla dummies! No, really, we are! On our first day here together, Tuesday, we decide to hit the beaches. Eric has asked around and scoped out the best place to go. So, there we are, taking in the beautiful ocean scenery, the white sand covering our toes, silently watching the swimsuit clad strangers (and secretly wishing most were a little more modest). Then out I pull my little 3 ounce bottle of SPF 30 -- yes, thank you airport security, you can shoulder some of the blame -- to cover both our exposed vulnerable bodies. Needless to say, 3 ounces just isn't enough for a day in the sun, especially not for us fair-skinned Idaho folks. By that evening we were feeling the effects. I suffered through the chills for most of the night, and by morning we were both miserable! Here it is, Thursday, and we're still in beautiful, sunny, warm Florida. But, am I outside enjoying myself? Are we heading to the beach to relax? NO! I'm sitting here blogging because I can barely walk! We've spent the last two days home-bound in front of a very large plasma TV watching movie after movie after movie, occasionally unprying our aloe-laden bodies from the leather sofa (OUCH) to rehydrate or refuel. Today, one of the Tampa natives tells us that this week the UVA and UVB index (they have one of those?) has been off the charts. Grrreat. That would have been helpful information TWO DAYS AGO! However, our time here has still been out of this world. We've been able to stay up late, sleep in, enjoy PEACE and QUIET - something incredibly elusive in our daily lives. This has been a very rejuvenating trip. Maybe God just used the severe sunburns to keep our pace at a crawl! Honey, you da bomb! [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Tuesday, May 06, 2008 This is my tribute to my husband. Happy Birthday! (He will probably NEVER read this, but maybe someday he'll stumble upon it and be pleasantly surprised.)  Looking petty hot out there, Honey! Florida... here we come! [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Thursday, May 01, 2008 So, it might not be the BEST timing in the world... but I'll take it! Eric's boss finally set a date for the much anticipated business trip to Florida - Mother's Day weekend, no less. So, to make up for it, he's spotting a ticket for me to tag along. I'll be heading down a few days after Eric (so that I don't have to hang around and watch him work) and we'll have 3 WHOLE DAYS to ourselves! Of course, leaving a 1 year old that has never slept away from home (and is not yet weaned), as well as two rowdy big kids with schedules to keep with my parents - namely my mother - well... sorry Mom! She'll forgive me later! Speedster Ava [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Monday, April 28, 2008
I'm not sure WHY I find this so funny... but I do. Nothing cuter than a naked baby racing in a mega dump truck. And with no expression change whatsoever. Way to keep it sober, Ava! Baby Fixins [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Monday, April 28, 2008My best friend FINALLY decided to have a baby (like 2 months ago)! Little Jameson was born March 5th and it was so awesome that she let me be there through her pain so that I could be one of the first few to welcome him to the world! Thanks Rach!  Today the kids finally got some one-on-one time with the little guy. Annabel was loving being able to feed him with a bottle, something she could never do with our baby! 
But, as for Ava, "she's just not that into you" Jameson! She was more interested in smacking his soft little head, poking at his baby blues, and fishhooking his virgin nostrils. There'll be lots of time for getting along... later! It was lots of fun hanging out with you guys today! We need to do it more often!! Birthdays [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Saturday, April 05, 2008Does it make me a bad mother if I take the minimalistic stance in regards to these upcoming birthdays? I can't help but feel guilty after 4 years of big and pricey birthday bashes for Annabel, and 2 years for Andrew. But, this year I'd rather just skip birthdays alltogether! Instead of a party for Andrew (who would probably appreciate NOT having one anyway) we will be spending the day focusing on him and the types of things he enjoys doing. And, that's the plan for Annabel this year, too. I hope that the absense of party pictures with crowds of people in their scrapbooks won't be too traumatic for them later in life. I think the only trauma inflicted in this decision is upon myself and my conscience! Andy-rooney [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Friday, March 21, 2008 It was just a few months ago that I noticed a strange spot on Andrew's little pink tongue. At the time I remember thinking that he must have bit himself or ate something too hot, resulting in a little blister. But as the weeks went on and the spot grew instead of shrinking, I began to get a little concerned. A novice dentist said "calcification" (of the tongue?!). With that answer, I of course sought a 2nd opinion from an oral surgeon we'd had luck with in the past. He was great and tried to assure me that it was probably nothing, but I should go to an ENT for a biopsy. So, I made my appointment and waited. By the time we got in it had been 6 months since I first noticed the spot on his tongue. The ENT took one look and recommended we remove the entire area (which is the size of the tip of a pencil eraser). Our appointment was set for the following Monday morning. The day of the surgery we woke Andrew at 6:30 and took him straight to the car. By the time we got to the hospital, his little nervous stomach was all worked up and he was telling us that he needed to throw up. Poor guy ended up with my nerves! Of course, he didn't throw up since he hadn't eaten anything for 12 hours. When we were finally called back, Andrew gave any and everyone the evil eye, especially if they tried to talk to him. The nurses told us tha  t we would not be allowed to go back with him as they put him to sleep, which I knew would not go over well with our little man. When it was time to take him back to the OR, it was an abrupt and mildly traumatic experience. I had just finished taking him to the bathroom and was carrying him back to our little room. The anesthesiologist litterally grabbed him from my arms, grabbing my arm in the process and started tugging. Andrew freaked out and grabbed my neck. I was literally being drug down the hall by both parties before finally managing to break free. I managed to frantically stuff Andrew's BFF Guido (pronounced wee-doh) between the two of them and hope it founds its way into Andy's terrified clutches. This incident wasn't without many screams of fear from Andrew. Apparently he didn't calm down until he was knocked unconscious!  After waiting an eternity for his surgery to finish -- okay, 45 minutes -- we were allowed back to see him. They warned us that most kids wake up in panic mode. But not our Andrew. He just stared blankly at us. Almost in contempt. He was calm and collected and his first words were to ask for food - a blue popsicle to be exact. After 1 hour in recovery we were allowed to take him home. They warned us that he'd be groggy and grumpy and want to sleep the entire day. They prescribed tylenol with codeine for the pain they said would be inevitable and intense. We headed home. On the way, Andrew requested blue jello, which is not something I regularly keep on hand! We stopped at the grocery store to run in for a few things. Andrew was in suc  h a good mood, we managed to fill our cart with many things! Once home, he didn't sit still for more than a couple minutes at a time. He never complained about his tongue (or his throat, since they intubated him) hurting. And, groggy never entered the picture. I was halfway looking forward to having a lazy little boy for a day! They told me he would surely pull out his own stitches. His stitches lasted 3 days before they finally fell out on their own. We never did fill the prescription for his loaded tylenol and only gave him two doses of OTC Tylenol as a preventative measure. All in all, I'd say they drastically underestimated our Andrew's disposition! Our lovely neighbors brought us dinner that night, and I was halfway embarassed that I had a healthy little kid running through the house as if nothing had ever happened. I swear he had surgery!!! The pathology report finally came in Thursday. The spot on his tongue was a benign papilloma. I'm still not 100% sure what THAT is, but needless to say -- Praise God it was not something more serious! We are very relieved to have this chapter of our life behind us. Through this experience we've learned a lot about the strength and calm that IS within our boy, although quite elusive. And his tongue, they assured us, will look as though nothing had ever happened in a few short weeks. Let's hope they aren't wrong about that as well! Breastfeeding-- not for the weak [ Click to view and write comments] Posted Tuesday, July 17, 2007Breastfeeding is not for the faint of heart or weak-willed. . . at least this has been my experience!
As a first time mother I was completely unprepared, as I think most women are, for what it truly would entail to breastfeed my infant daughter. Do they not find it important to forewarn expecting mothers of the looming pain and discomfort during the hospital-sponsored "Preparing to Breastfeed" classes?!
The first discomfort is sore nipples from infants who would prefer to be permanently attached at the breast rather than simply fed every 2-3 hours (which is bad enough as it is!). I don't care how great a latch you have, virgin nipples take a beating. Then comes the great joys of your milk coming in for the first time. Engorgement, sore nipples, and stretch marks on your suddenly 2 cup size larger breasts.
After about 3 months, the first time mother finally gets the hang of nursing and the pains go away, but it's no wonder so many women give up after only a few short weeks!
And here's been my experience that has made the wonderful and bonding experience of nursing more of a drag. My children have numerous sensitivities to what I eat. It took 3 months of naive nursing before someone finally brought it to my attention that the reason my daughter was screaming nearly every minute she was awake and puking nearly all she ate was because of the dairy in my diet. I cut out all dairy products, became a vigilant label reader, and wallah-- a happy nursing baby for 12 full months.
My son, on the other hand: I never did figure out what was causing him grief. We managed to make it 11 months, but the first 8 months were not without sleepless nights and a lot of crying.
And, now, my 3rd and final daughter is having similar symptoms, but hers are more complex. Now we've got green slimy poo to contend with, as well as the skin rashes, constant spitting up, and constant pained crying. How many things can one nursing mother eliminate from her diet before she simply withers up and blows away?! At 5'7" and 115 pounds, I really shouldn't be losing more weight!
I pretty much expected my daughter to not tolerate dairy from the start, and planned accordingly, but at 5 weeks my tranquil little angel woke from her newborn infant daze, and was NOT happy with life in general. Her poop turned into green mucous and she started having terrible gas pains and LOTS of crying. In an attempt to solve this problem, I've now cut all the "nasty nine" common allergens from my diet, but wondering if maybe I shouldn't just throw in the towel this time!
Of course, common sense reminds me of the many benefits of breastfeeding, but how can I contend with the notion that it's my milk causing her endless intestional agony? Mothers are supposed to be the healers and comforters, and that couldn't be further from how I feel!
I will rise to meet this challenge and hopefully we will figure out why my little Avalee is so miserable. In the meantime, I can't help but dream of what it would be like to let my husband feed the baby at 4 AM, or actually get to go to a movie and not worry about my breasts popping while I'm away. Besides, I could really go for a pan of brownies right now, an iced white chocolate mocha, and some french bread toasted with butter and cheese. Oh, and some pizza, too!
As I constantly remind my 4 year old daughter-- no pain lasts forever. So hopefully Ava's physical pain and my emotional pain will soon be a thing of the past!
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